“I can only be seen when the other accepts that I am not complete, that my desire is not identical to hers. Thanks to her love I no longer try to desire what the other wants me to desire. I can be seen by the other now that she can see me with my actual desire.” – Andre Vantino on love as an affair between two lacks, on love as making each other visible through being only ever visible as lack

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