“[In melancholia, it is as if] the other takes a piece of you away [after you are on your own. In mourning, not in melancholia,] the lost other becomes part of your life, [contributing to] your aliveness[,] part of you rather than somebody separate from you.” – Raul Moncayo, paraphrased – via http://ift.tt/1ryTw8y [the lecture is not online, I only found a mention of it: http://ift.tt/1uPZ4iX – Andre Vantino]