“To compare oneself with others is at centre in the society of enjoyment. Its superego pressure had depressed the Columbine killer: “I wanted happiness!! I never got it!!! Let’s sum up my life. the most miserable..in the history of time.”” – The columbine killer cannot be simply dehumanized. One needs to ask, did he try to get rid of the excess in the Other, did he confuse the Other, the beloved, etc, with an excess or intensity of life? He wrote in his journal: “OH MY GOD,” “I am almost sure I am in love.” These words show that not only did he fail himself, but his ideology caused him to fail, an ideology he got from society. It is the ideology of the society of complaint. The society of having to enjoy as much as others, is also ultimately a society of constant complaint, which is apparent in his complaints: “Such a sad.., lonely unsalvageable i feel I am,..not fair’. – Andre Vantino on the Columbine school mass-shooting